i don't know what to do about my aid. the way she treats the children is not ok. but each day that i want to talk to her she tells me how she has hemmoroids or how her daughter is being abused. how the crap do i talk to her? she told me yesterday that in the afternoons she still gets depressed sometimes (her husband left her years ago) because their is no one to talk to. how do i tell such a person she needs professional development? did i add that she is about 55? shes about 55. did i add thats shes been in the school business for like 16 years? shes been in the school for 16 years. i really have to talk to her. its going to eat me up..it already has begun. but i'm too freakin stupid nice. too nice is not always nice. ? i don't know
thoughts? anyone?
my ten:
1. glitter is all over Orlan's hand, "look, its like micheal jackson's glove, you know he used to wear it!" he proceeds to do a micheal jackson move
2. Me: "Does anyone have anything nice to say about someone else?"
cyrell benally, "kyren hit me in the back today, then he said sorry"
3. shauntai clyde, " i love you ms.singh"
4. the purple flower ring shauntai gave me..the best ring ever
5. me: "if you had to pick one which one would you be for halloween, a bat or queen?"
cyrell benally, " QUEEN!!"
6. kyren runs up to me with a poster covering his face, all i see is kyren body and laughter
7. kaden waiting for me to get my stuff for lunch
8. acting out goldilocks in an accent that was a mix of indian/arabian/aladdin dude that narrated aladdin's story (who knows who i'm talking about?.... =) accent
9. madison winning first prize for her art out of kindergarten...yes!.. (there are only two kindergarten classes..but still)
10. orlan's strange but incredibly awesome penguin hat
11. bonus
Neala is having a conversation with another student concerning orlan's penguin hat, "You just hurt mr.penguin, DON'T hold him like that!"
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WTF Nupur!!!!!!?!?!?!??!????? YOU BETTER TELL HER ASAP...
ReplyDeleteI told you exactly what do say love? There are sometimes when an opportunity will never willing present itself. You have to find a way to approach and address it. Things will not get resolved if you never tell her. People will always have something going on. There are some things we have to address that will never seem the right moment to address. You must just do it. Butter that woman up, and slam her with the truth, making sure to keep in the sugar, and slowly add the lemon. Guess what lemons and sugar make...
that's right baby. A drinkable concotion known as lemonade. And we can work with that...
Tell her to shut the fuck up about her shit. Your good friend is paraplegic and the world is starving and people are dying. Mention that you're from India and that you've seen people starve to death. Once she shows some remorse and says "sorry" or something, punch her in the face and tell her HAHA JUST KIDDING, I DONT COMPAIN LIKE YOU DO.
ReplyDeleteOh, and I've learned the hard way: nice people finish last. Always. An unfortunate truth.
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